Friday, December 12, 2025

Summer Homeschooling - Public Speaking/Debate Week

🎤 PUBLIC SPEAKING & DEBATE WEEK


🎬 Watch "The Great Debaters."

🗓️ MONDAY — Public Speaking Foundations


This week, we’re learning how to speak so people listen. Not to win arguments, not to be louder than others — but to explain ideas clearly and confidently. Public speaking is a skill. Nobody is born good at it. It’s something you build.

“When have you seen someone speak and really hold attention?”

“What made them interesting?”

Learning Goals

  • Understand why public speaking matters
  • Learn basic delivery skills
  • Practice speaking without fear

Teaching Script: "Public speaking isn’t about being loud or dramatic—it’s about helping people understand what you think and why it matters."

Core Lessons

1. What Makes a Good Speaker - Strong speakers do four things well. Not perfectly — just well.
  • Eye contact - Looking at people, not at the floor.
  • Voice (volume, pace, pauses) - Speaking clearly, not rushing.
  • Body language - Standing like you believe what you’re saying.
  • Clear structure - Beginning, middle, end.
“Which one do you think is hardest?”
“Which one do you already do well?”

🎤 30-Second Introductions: You’ll each give a 30-second introduction. This is practice, not a performance.

“Tell us your name, favorite book/movie, and one opinion you have.”

After each:

“One thing you did well was…”
“One thing to try next time is…”

2. Types of Speeches
  • Informative
  • Persuasive
  • Entertaining
  • Argumentative (debate)
3. Fear & Confidence
  • Teach the concept of speaker nerves = energy, not fear.
  • Feeling nervous doesn’t mean you’re bad at speaking. It means your brain knows something important is happening. Our goal this week isn’t no nerves. It’s speaking anyway.
Activities
  • 🎭 Emotion Read: Read the same sentence in different emotions (angry, excited, bored).
  • 🪞 Mirror Practice: Practice posture and gestures.
  • Reflection: What's one strength you already have going for you? What's one goal you have for this week?
Resources
  • Kid-friendly article
  • Video: “Public Speaking Tips for Kids” – TED-Ed Youth
  • Blog: National Speech & Debate Association

🗓️ TUESDAY — Public Forum Debate (Case Building Day)


Debate is not yelling. Debate is organized disagreement. Today, you will argue a position you may or may not agree with — and that’s a skill.

Resolution 

Resolved: The United States should accede to the Rome Statute of the International Criminal Court.

That means: Should the U.S. officially join the International Criminal Court?

Teaching Script: “A debate resolution is a yes-or-no question. One side must prove why it should happen. The other proves why it should not.

To do this, each side must prove:
  • What they believe
  • Why it matters
  • Why its better than the other side

🧱 Debate Basics (Kid-Friendly Breakdown)

  • Affirmative (yes): “We should do this because it solves problems.”
  • Negative (no): “We should not do this because it causes harm or doesn’t work.”
"Why isn't just having an opinion enough?"

Step 1: Learn the Topic (Together)

Explain in simple terms:

  • What is the ICC?
  • What is the Rome Statute?
  • Why hasn’t the U.S. joined?

Watch / Read Together

  • Video (short & clear): ICC explained for students
  • Article
  • Student-friendly overview

Step 2: Coin Flip & Team Assignment

  • Flip coin for Affirmative / Negative
  • Assign:
    • Speaker 1
    • Speaker 2

Step 3: Case Writing (Scaffolded)

Case Template (Use for BOTH sides)

Every argument has three parts.

1. Introduction

  • Restate the resolution
  • Clearly say your position

2. Argument 1

  • Claim - what you're saying
  • Evidence (quote/fact) - proves it's true
  • Impact (why it matters, why anyone should care)

3. Argument 2

  • Claim
  • Evidence (quote/fact)
  • Impact (why it matters)

4. Conclusion

  • Why your side is better overall

Prep Time Rule:⏱️ Each team gets 3 total minutes of prep time during the debate.

Model an example.

  • “What does this prove?”
  • “Why does that matter?”
  • “Can you say this more clearly?”

🗓️ WEDNESDAY — Public Forum Debate Day


Today is about thinking on your feet, staying calm, and being respectful. You are not attacking people. You are challenging ideas.

Morning: Finish Writing

  • Polish cases
  • Practice timing
  • Review crossfire questions
⏱️ Each team gets 3 total minutes of prep time during the debate.

Teaching Script for Crossfire: Crossfire isn’t arguing. It’s asking smart questions that expose weak points. They should do one of three things: clarify, expose a weakness, force a choice.

  • “Where is your evidence for that?”
  • “Does that apply in all cases, or just some?”
  • “Which matters more: safety or independence?”

🧠 Debate Flow

  • Constructive – Team A (4 min)
  • Constructive – Team B (4 min)
  • Crossfire (3 min)
  • Rebuttals (4 min each)
  • Crossfire (3 min)
  • Summaries (3 min each)
  • Grand Crossfire (3 min)
  • Final Focus (2 min each)

📌 Judge Tip for You:

Judge on:

  • Clarity
  • Use of evidence
  • Organization
  • Persuasiveness
  • Respectful questioning
  • Strong final focus

After Dinner: Debate Night

  • Optional: invite family as audience
  • Applause after every speech
Post-Debate Reflection

Ask:
  • “What argument mattered most?”
  • “What question changed the debate?”
  • “What would you improve next time?”

🗓️ THURSDAY — Individual Speech Events


Teaching Script: “Debate is teamwork. Individual events are about your voice. Today, you choose how you want to communicate.”

🎭 Individual Events Mini-Lessons

Dramatic Interpretation (DI)

  • Serious excerpt from a book/play
  • Show emotion through voice & movement
  • Your goal is to make us feel something.

📘 Practice Source

Duo Interpretation (DUO)

  • Two performers
  • No touching or eye contact
  • Use blocking and contrast

Humorous Interpretation (HI)

  • Funny but controlled
  • Comedy is about timing, not chaos

Impromptu (IMP)

You'll get a topic, take a breath, and organize your thoughts. Everyone messes up in impromptu. That's the point.

🎩 Pull a topic from a hat:

  • “Should homework exist?”
  • “Is technology good for kids?”
  • “What makes a hero?”

Structure:

  • Intro (30 sec)
  • Point 1
  • Point 2
  • Conclusion

Original Oratory (OO)

  • 3–5 minutes
  • Persuasive speech on a topic they care about

Possible Topics:

  • Screen time
  • Animal rights
  • School rules
  • Climate action
  • Social media

🗓️ FRIDAY — Memorization & Performance Night


Morning

  • Memorize OO
  • Practice gestures and pauses

Teaching Script: “Memorization frees your brain to connect with the audience.”

Practice tips:

  • Chunking
  • Speaking while walking
  • Speaking without notes for short sections

Evening: Performance Showcase

"Tonight isn’t about perfection. It’s about courage. We clap for effort, growth, and bravery.”

Each child performs:

  • Original Oratory
  • One interpretation OR impromptu
“What was one strong moment?”
“What improved since Monday?”

🎤 Optional Awards:

  • Best Speaker
  • Most Improved
  • Strongest Argument
  • Best Stage Presence
This week, you learned how to:
  • Speak clearly
  • Defend ideas
  • Disagree respectfully
  • Stand up and be heard
Those skills matter everywhere — school, work, and life.

Hand out Debate Camp Certificates.

🗓️ SATURDAY — Field Trip


  • 🎙️ Toastmasters Youth Event (if available)
  • 🏛️ Courthouse Observation (mock or real)

📚 Bonus Resources (Excellent for This Age)

Summer Homeschooling - Japan Week

🌸 JAPAN WEEK — 5-DAY HOMESCHOOLING PLAN + EPCOT


  • Martial arts - DojoGo!
  • Bonsai trees
  • holidays, celebrations; Greenery Day origami

Books to get from the Library:

  • 📚 Tales from Japan
  • 📚 The Crane Girl
  • 📚 Luck
  • 📚 Night of the Ninjas
  • 📚 Ninjas & Samurai (Fact Tracker #30)
  • 📚 Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes
  • 📚 Tales from Japan
  • 📚 Life as a Ninja (You Choose Series)
  • 📚 I Survived the Japanese Tsunami
  • 📚 The Boy in the Garden


MONDAY — Welcome to Japan


Focus: Establish foundational context for the rest of the week with deeper thinking.

“What do you already know about Japan?”
“What comes to mind when you think of Japanese culture?”

1. Discover Japan: Geography & Culture Basics

Japan has four main islands — Hokkaido, Honshu, Shikoku, and Kyushu. The land is mostly mountains, which means towns are often built near the coast. Japan sits on several tectonic plates, which means earthquakes and tsunamis are part of life. Because Japan was once very isolated from other countries, a lot of traditions developed in unique ways.

“How might living on islands change a culture?”
“Why do you think Japan became technologically advanced but still very traditional?”
  • Locate Japan on a world map
  • Islands explained
  • Map labeling — major islands, Tokyo, Kyoto, Mt. Fuji.
2. Symbols of Japan

Certain symbols in Japan appear everywhere — cherry blossoms, cranes, turtles, mountains. But they aren’t just pretty pictures. They all have deep meanings.Cherry blossoms bloom beautifully but only for a short time. This represents the idea of mono no aware — the beauty of temporary things. Cranes represent peace and long life.Sea turtles are symbols of protection and wisdom.
STEM: Map the Migration of Sea Turtles (sacred in Japanese folklore)

Kids trace migration paths across the Pacific.

3. Introduction to Japanese Language + Poetry

Japanese uses three writing systems: hiragana, katakana, and kanji. Hiragana is the soft, flowing script used for native Japanese words. One of Japan’s most famous written art forms is the haiku — a short poem that captures a moment in nature using just a few syllables. It forces the writer to slow down and notice small details.

“What moment in nature have you noticed recently?”
“Why do short poems sometimes feel stronger than long ones?”
  • Hiragana basics
  • Simple greetings (konnichiwa, arigato, ohayo); why do Japanese use three writing systems?
  • Write a Haiku or Tanka Poem; maybe themed to an environmental issue like tsunamis, cherry blossoms disappearing, pollution; illustrate with cherry blossom painting or crane drawing
4. Daily Life in Japan
  • Eating on the floor
  • Bento boxes
  • Traditional home items, funcsha
  • Importance of seasons
Lunch: Bento-style meal eaten on the floor.

5. Art Block (Choose 2–3)
  • Japanese Rock Garden (Zen Tray) - A Zen garden uses rocks and sand to create patterns that help clear the mind. The designs represent ripples, waves, or mountains. “What pattern makes you feel calm?”
  • Monkey Onsen Watercolor Salt Art - In Japan, snow monkeys warm themselves in natural hot springs called onsens. The steam, the snow, and the calm atmosphere create a beautiful contrast. “What colors would you use to show warmth in a cold scene?” 
6. Japan & Nature STEM

Japan is located where tectonic plates meet. When the seafloor shifts suddenly, it pushes a massive wave of water toward the shore — a tsunami. Your goal is to build a structure that can stand against wave forces. Engineers in Japan do this all the time.

Tsunami STEM ChallengeKids build houses and test wave impact. 

“What design features make buildings safer?”

TUESDAY — Ancient Japan


Focus: Deep roots of Japanese society — belief systems, historical eras, martial arts, classical craftsmanship.

1. Buddhism + Shinto Introduction

Japan’s two main belief systems are Buddhism and Shinto. Buddhism teaches compassion and the pursuit of peace within yourself. Shinto is centered on nature and the idea that everything — trees, rivers, mountains — has a spirit called kami. These two beliefs blend together, shaping Japanese traditions and values.

Teach:
  • Buddha (nirvana, compassion)
  • Temples & shrines
  • Torii gates
  • Meditation
  • Shinto vs Buddhism
    • Shinto ideas (kami, nature spirits, purity)
2. Ancient Japan Overview

Japan’s history stretches back thousands of years. Each era brought new ideas — farming, poetry, warriors, castles, and beautiful art. We’re going to create a timeline to see how Japan changed over time.
  • Jomon → Yayoi → Heian → Edo periods
  • Rise of samurai class - “Why do you think warriors emerged as powerful leaders in Japan?”
  • Feudal Japan explained
3. Samurai, Ninjas, Sumo, and Martial Arts

Samurai were not just warriors — they followed a code called bushido, emphasizing honor, loyalty, and discipline. Ninjas were spies trained in stealth, disguise, and intelligence gathering — not the magical figures movies show. Sumo wrestlers follow ancient rituals that honor Shinto traditions.
“Which role would be hardest: samurai, ninja, or sumo — and why?”

Activities:
  • “Create Your Own Dojo”
  • Kendo Sword Craft (cardboard + duct tape)
4. Traditional Clothing: Kimonos

  • Kumihimo Braiding - This braiding technique was once used to lace samurai armor. Today it’s used for bracelets and cords.
  • Temari Balls (Simplified) - These thread-wrapped balls started as toys but turned into a respected art form. The patterns represent harmony and patience.
  • Iriomote Yamaneko DrawingDraw endangered wildcat using step-by-step video from Lara Saldaña. Shading, texture, realism. This wildcat is endangered and lives only on one small Japanese island. Use shading to bring out its texture.
6. Music Study: Toru Takemitsu


WEDNESDAY — Arts of Japan


Focus: The evolution of Japanese art — textile dyeing, printmaking, kawaii roots, and sensory rituals (incense).


Japanese art focuses on simplicity, space, and appreciating the imperfect.

Teach:
  • Wabi-sabi (beauty in imperfection)
  • Ma (space & pause, the space around things matters as much as the object itself)
  • Kanso (simplicity)
“Where do you see wabi-sabi in nature?”
“Why does empty space make art feel calm?”

2. Woodblock Printing (Ukiyo-e)

Cherry Blossom Haiku Woodblock Print - Traditional Japanese printmakers carved wooden blocks to create repeated patterns. Today we’ll use foam to mimic the technique.

Activity:
  • Make prints on foam blocks
  • Create a layered design, linework + background
  • Create the Great Wave, cranes, cherry blossoms, bamboo forest, or Mt. Fuji
3. Shibori Dyeing

Shibori is a centuries-old method of folding and binding fabric before dyeing it. Each fold creates a different pattern — much like batik or tie-dye, but more intentional.

  • Itajime (fold + clamp)
  • Arashi (pole-wrapping)
  • Kumo (spiderweb twist)
Use Kool-Aid for safe kid dyeing.

Kids can make:
  • T-shirt
  • Tote bag
  • Fabric patch
4. Origami & 1,000 Paper Cranes Challenge

Origami teaches patience, accuracy, and focus. Cranes especially represent peace and healing.
5. Japanese Sensu Fan Craft

Themes:
  • 🌸 Cherry blossoms
  • 🌊 The Great Wave
  • 🗻 Mt. Fuji
  • 🦢 Cranes
6. Kodo & Japanese Aromatherapy

Kodo is the 'Way of Scent.' It’s a practice of slowing down, noticing the smallest details, and using scent to bring calm. Teach scent bowls, incense, and forest bathing. Kids learn sensory ritual, symbolism, and mindfulness.

“What scents make you feel peaceful or focused?”


THURSDAY — Japanese Food & Culinary Traditions


Focus: Eating culture, cooking foundations, food preparation, bento making, etiquette.

1. Washoku (Traditional Food Culture)

Washoku is the traditional Japanese way of eating. Meals include five colors, five flavors, and five cooking methods. This creates balance — not just for nutrition, but for beauty.

“Which colors are missing from your usual meals?”

Teach:
  • Seasonal eating
  • Balance of color/flavor
  • Rice importance
  • Bento culture
Assignment: Make a balanced meal using all five colors.

2. Cooking Lab

When cooking Japanese food, pay attention to texture, color, and presentation. You’re not just cooking — you’re creating an experience.

Choose 2–4 depending on stamina.
“What was hardest — rolling, flavoring, slicing, or presenting?”

3. Bento Design + Food Carving

Bento boxes are like edible art. Every item has a purpose — nutrition, color, shape, meaning.

Kids make simple bento “characters” or shapes. Use all 5 colors.
  • Color
  • Nutrition
  • Aesthetic balance
  • Japanese Symbolism
4. Textile Tie-In: Shibori on the Silk Road

Short lesson on ancient trade routes and Japanese textiles. Trade routes brought silk, dyes, and new patterns into Japan. Shibori techniques traveled along these routes and evolved into their own unique forms. Silk, sashiko stitching, shibori methods.

FRIDAY — Modern Japan: Anime, Pop Culture, History, Kawaii Design

Focus: Connect ancient roots to modern expression.

1. Anime & Studio Ghibli

Anime isn’t just cartoons — it’s storytelling through emotion, symbolism, and dramatic visuals. Studio Ghibli films blend fantasy with real-life feelings such as fear, courage, loneliness, and hope.
  • What is anime
  • Themes of Studio Ghibli, moral dilemmas, why anime resonates globally
“What makes anime visually different from Western animation?”
“Why do Ghibli stories feel so emotional?”

Activities:
  • Draw a Ghibli spirit
  • Create a flying castle blueprint
  • Anime self-portrait (chibi style)
2. Godzilla & Modern History

Godzilla was created after the bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. He represents destructive power humans create — and fear of repeating the past. This is fiction, but the emotions behind it are real.


Discuss:
  • Godzilla as nuclear metaphor (fear of nuclear weapons, trauma, environmental destruction)
  • How fiction helps cultures heal
Craft:
  • Build paper skyscraper cityscape
  • Shadow Godzilla silhouette
  • Create your own kaiju to represent some of the issues we have going on today
3. Introduction to Kawaii

Kawaii means ‘cute,’ but it’s more than that. It’s a style, an attitude, and sometimes a way of coping with stress. Kawaii characters are soft, round, gentle — they make the world feel more friendly.

“Why do you think cute characters appeal to all ages?”

Teach origins in:
  • Shinto (spirits in objects)
  • Why "cute" became a cultural identity
  • Harmony, softness, playfulness
  • Soft rebellion in youth culture
  • Modern mascots, Hello Kitty, Pokémon
4. Kawaii Craft Station
  • A mascot character with personality traits
  • A sticker or logo 
  • Kawaii stickers
  • Kawaii notebook cover
  • Mascot creation worksheet
  • Kawaii self-portrait
  • Hello Kitty rock painting
  • Clay "Mochi creature"
Evening Movie:🎬 Spirited Away or Howl’s Moving Castle

SATURDAY — EPCOT FIELD TRIP: Japan Pavilion Day


A seamless extension of the week — everything you did connects here.

🎵 Watch Matsuriza Taiko Drummers

A traditional Japanese drumming group performing the ancient art of Taiko drumming. Their powerful, rhythmic performance can be heard across the World Showcase. Performed on the balcony of the main building, near Kabuki Cafe at the pavilion's entrance. Traditional Taiko drumming performances bring energy to the pavilion. Connect back to Monday’s symbols & Tuesday’s ancient music

🍧 Eat a Japanese Snack

Katsura Grill – A quiet spot serving teriyaki, sushi, and udon 
Kabuki Cafe – Known for Kakigōri (shaved ice) and Japanese snacks

Choose:
  • Kakigōri (shaved ice) - Kabuki Cafe
  • Teriyaki bowl
  • Udon
  • Mochi ice cream
  • Green tea
  • Violet Sake (grown-ups) - The Garden House
🛍 Mitsukoshi Department Store Scavenger List - The best place in EPCOT for Japanese goods, anime merchandise, and gifts

Kids must find:
  • Lucky Cats (Maneki-neko) - Symbolizing good fortune and happiness
  • Anime merchandise
  • Bento supplies
  • Chopsticks
  • A crane
  • A kimono/yukata
  • A Godzilla item
  • Sake set - Beautifully crafted for serving Japanese rice wine
  • Pick-a-pearl counter
  • Kawaii section
  • Maybe pick up a Buddha Board – A unique water-painting experience using a bamboo brush
🎨 Bijutsu-kan Gallery
  • Compare to Wednesday’s woodblock + Shibori lessons
  • Explore the replica kawaii Tokyo apartment
🐟 Explore the Koi Pond

Connect to Monday’s nature themes

📸 PhotoPass in the Gardens

🎆 Fireworks from the Balcony

🍱 Optional Table Service
  • Teppan Edo - A hibachi-style restaurant where chefs cook right at your table
  • Shiki-Sai - A seasonal sushi and izakaya-style dining experience with stunning views
  • Takumi-Tei kaiseki - An upscale Kaiseki dining experience with multi-course meals
🎢 End-of-Day Treat

Ride Guardians of the Galaxy

Thursday, December 11, 2025

“Living with Totoro” – 7-Day Homeschool Schedule

“Living with Totoro” – 7-Day Homeschool Schedule


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🌱 DAY 1 — Arrival & Settling Into the Totoro World


Evening
  • Arrive, unpack slowly, open windows, let the house “wake up”
  • Light sweeping of porch (engawa)
  • Brew mugicha (barley tea), Japan’s summer drink
  • Explore the yard: find a “Totoro Tree” (biggest tree becomes home base); give it a hug and say, “Hello, Forest. Thank you for having us.”
Dinner
  • Make onigiri (rice balls) for your first countryside bento
  • Eat outdoors on a blanket like Satsuki + Mei
Wind-down
  • Quiet walk around the yard to explore: collect leaves, tiny branches, feathers, fallen flowers
  • Learn your first Japanese word: 森 (mori) – forest
  • Create a “Nature Altar” in the home (like Mei’s treasures shelf)
  • Start nature journals; candle journaling: “What do I hope to learn this week?”


🍃 DAY 2 — Chores of a Country Life


Morning Chores
  • Sweep porch & shake rugs (tatami-cleaning tradition)
  • Make natural cleaning spray (vinegar + citrus peels)
  • Craft: Make a mini shimenawa (sacred rope) for your Totoro Tree
Lunch
  • Simple miso soup + rice
  • Teach chopstick skills (hashi)
Afternoon
  • Read an old folk story under a tree
  • Quiet time drawing the house from outside
  • Origami: frogs, cranes, sakura flower, or Totoro face
  • Play ohajiki (Japanese marble-like game)
  • Learn Japanese nature words:
    • mori (forest)
    • kaze (wind)
    • tsuki (moon)
    • kodama (tree spirit)
Evening (Candlelight)
  • Make shadow puppets
  • Storytelling circle: “If Totoro lived here…”
  • Perform a kamishibai style story (Japanese story cards)
  • Write “Today I served the house” in your journal


🌸 DAY 3 — Foraging & Harvesting


Morning Chores
  • Forage: Collect pinecones, sticks, leaves, bark, herbs, flowers, grasses, soft moss, clover, mint, or fallen items/petals (old Japanese summer activity); gather acorns and natural treasures
  • Observe mushrooms, cicada shells (semi no nuki-gara), birds, & dragonflies (tonbo), and draw them in your journal
Lunch
  • Prepare tsukemono (quick Japanese pickles) to enjoy later
  • Eat rice + pickled veggies + fruit
Afternoon
  • If allowed: harvest garden items or collect eggs
  • Prepare a small “meadow salad,” foraged bouquet, or herb bundle/herb seasoning mix
  • Make pressed flower pages for your journal
  • Draw or paint nature scenes
  • Nature craft: Create forest spirit acorns; make soot sprite characters from acorns/pom-poms & yarn
Evening (Candlelight)
  • Sit outside quietly: look for fireflies
  • Nature listening ritual; listen to nighttime insects
  • Record nature sounds in journal (“What did the night teach us?”); “What did the forest whisper today?”


🕯 DAY 4 — Candle Making + Old-World Crafts


Morning Chores

  • Wash dishes outside in basins (like old Japanese homes before plumbing)
  • Sweep pathway or porch
  • Hand-wash 1 clothing item or towel (basin washing)
  • Hang laundry outdoors to dry (furoshiki-style folding practice after)
  • Organize clothes using KonMari-style folding (kid-friendly)
Lunch
  • Tamagoyaki (Japanese rolled eggs) + rice
  • Brew fresh mugicha
Afternoon
  • Beeswax candle making
  • Make herb sachets from lavender, mint, and rosemary (placing one under your pillow is Japanese tradition)
  • Begin weaving project (placemat or bookmark,traditional Japanese textile vibe)
  • Japanese brush calligraphy (shodo)
  • Practice kanji like: 月 (moon), 風 (wind), 土 (earth), 心 (heart)
Evening (Candlelight Only)
  • Use the candles they made
  • Write letters with calligraphy pens/quills
  • Calligraphy practice → write “ありがとう (arigatou)”
  • Read by candlelight (classic childhood magic)
  • Whisper “Oyasumi, Totoro” before bed


🌾 DAY 5 — Cooking Like a Totoro Neighbor


Morning Chores

  • Gather herbs, wash them, dry them on a rack (old Japanese homes hung herbs from the rafters)
  • Scrub and wash vegetables outdoors
  • Fill water basins for dishwashing
Lunch Cooking Project
  • Kids make:
    • Make butter in a mason jar
    • Harvest rice bowls, rice bowls with toppings
    • Miso soup with greens, veggies
Afternoon - Japanese Desserts
  • Make dango (sweet dumplings)
  • Or roast yaki-imo (sweet potatoes)
  • Craft: furin wind chimes using bells + painted paper strips
Evening (Candlelight)
  • Candlelit dinner
  • Hang furin chime outside → listen to its soft sound
  • Draw your dango, meal, or wind chime in nature journals
  • Tell stories of Totoro (maybe the one at the bus stop)


🌲 DAY 6 — The Totoro Forest Walk


Morning Chores
  • Sweep and tidy home; clean house (Japanese hinoki wiping — damp cloth on wood)
  • Wash and fold anything dirty
  • Prepare a “forest offering” of flowers, herbs (child-safe, respectful)
Lunch
  • Onigiri picnic under trees
  • Drink mugicha outside
Afternoon
  • Long, quiet forest or meadow walk
  • Identify plants, trees, birds
  • Look for:
    • Interesting bark textures
    • Roots that look like spirits
    • Look for tree “faces” (kodama spirits)
  • Sketch the “faces” you see in trees, bark patterns and roots
  • Collect final nature items for display
  • Sit still and silently (meditate) for 10 minutes — “Quiet Like Totoro Time”
  • Create a Totoro Museum Table (take a photo) with:
    • Pressed flowers
    • Calligraphy papers
    • Candles
    • Dango sticks
    • Wind chimes
    • Nature collections
    • Weaving projects
Evening - Totoro Feast
  • Kids prepare one dish each (bread, soup, salad, herb potatoes, etc.); use the pickles they made
  • Light all candles and tell legends around the candles
  • Tidy home by hand (Japanese custom before holidays)
  • Write a final reflection: “What did the forest show me today?”
  • Tsukimi (moon-viewing) ritual
    • Light a candle
    • Eat a small sweet
    • Write a moon haiku
    • Stargazing like Satsuki and Mei
  • Share journals and stories
  • Blow out their homemade candles as a “thank you” to nature and to “seal” the magic of the week.


🌙 DAY 7 — Closing Ritual


Morning

  • Sweep porch gently
  • Pack belongings calmly
  • Hand-wash last items
  • Create a small offering to your Totoro Tree (flowers, herbs)
  • Bow to your Totoro Tree and say: “Arigatou gozaimashita, Mori no Kami.” (Thank you, Forest Spirit.)

Saturday, November 1, 2025

The 12 Days of Christmas - An Annual Yule Plan!

The 12 Days of Christmas (Yule Tide)

Yule (Winter Solstice) happens December 21-January 1st each year. It is a winter celebration of the shortest day of the year, and as such, the return of the sun and the beginning of longer days. It is a time of peace, stillness, and healing.

December 20th, Mother's Night (Yule's Eve)

A celebration of the Disir, protective female spirits of fate and fertility; ancestral grandmothers who blessed, protected, and provided prophetic counsel to the clan. This is a night for holding vigil through the dark to honor female ancestors. This is a night to honor the women who came before you. Hearth, linage, warmth, memory, and feminine wisdom.

We honor the women who carried us, fed us, taught us, protected us.
Their strength lives here. Their love is remembered.


Activities:
  • Light white candles in the windows, kitchen, and living room. One fore each maternal figure (living or passed).
  • Bring evergreens and winter berries inside.
  • Tell stories or speak aloud names of women who shaped you.
  • Clean the kitchen together gently → “Prepare the Hearth.”
Food & Drink:
  • Make family receipes and cookies.
  • Tea with honey.

December 21st, Winter's Night (the Winter Solstice)

Celebrating the longest night and the return of the sun, heralding the lengthening of days and the promise of spring. Hope, renewal, quiet magic.

The Sun returns.
Light rises again.
May our home be blessed with warmth, health, and joy.

Activities:
  • Dim lights all day; light only candles after sunset.
  • Display the Yule Log (birch, oak, yew) wrapped in rosemary and cinnamon, and burn it. The Yule Log is a Nordic tradition of burning a tree or log in the home for the entire 12 Days of Christmas, allowing the flame of the old year to ignite the new year. The ash from the log was sometimes used for rituals such as blessing crops, protecting against storms, and healing the sick.
  • Set intentions for the coming light (one per person).
  • Divination: tarot, runes, or pendulum after the log burns.

Food & Drink

  • Winter stew or roasted root vegetables.

December 22nd, Father's Night

A night to honor male spirits, the Alfar—male ancestors. Memory, protection, guidance, quiet presence.

You are loved. You are remembered.
Guide us softly. Watch over this home.

Activities:

  • Place your father’s photo near a single candle.
  • Add something that reminds you of him (object, color, scent).
  • Share a favorite story about him.
  • Play one song he loved.
  • Eat or cook something he enjoyed.
  • If weather allows → step outside and look at the night sky together.
  • Warm bath with epsom salt + cedar drops
  • Gentle stretching, breathwork, or chakra alignment

December 23rd, The Silly Feast (counting the blessings)

  • Loki's Silly (Seelie) Feast - a party or feast while wearing your animal masks, probably where our NYE masquerades come from. A time for exchanging gifts, turning social rules, and setting up the Yule Tree.
    • The Yule Tree: A Germanic tradition of decorating trees with greenery and ornaments (wish ornaments - salt dough with your hopes for the coming year, symbols of gratitude and joy). The yule tree signified abundance in the coming year. You decorate the outdoor trees for the animals and the indoor tree for you.
  • Release mischief, laughter, chaos, and fear.
    Allow joy + catharsis before the return to quiet.

    Activities

    • Make a fun feast — messy tacos, finger foods, something unexpected.

    • Tell stories — funny, ridiculous, mischievous family memories.

    • Hang bells on the door to ward The Wild Hunt.

    • Write fears/resentments on paper → burn or shred.

    Words

    Let chaos move through and out.
    Only joy remains.

     Upturn the ordinary. Laugh. Release stuck emotions. Allow joy, mischief, and transformation.

    Loki isn’t “the villain” here—he’s the Unraveler so new patterns can form.
    This night loosens knots, releases stagnant energy, and breaks old emotional contracts.

    The Wild Hunt energy rides the winds — we acknowledge it, but do not invite it inside.
    This is controlled chaos → release, play, purge, reset.


    Decor & Atmosphere

    • Red + Black + Gold accents

    • Bells hung on the front door (to guard against the Wild Hunt)

    • Candles, but one flame kept burning the entire evening

    • Incense or simmer pot with:

      • Clove

      • Orange Peel

      • Bay Leaf


    🦊 Crafts & Hands-On Ritual Play

    1. Animal / Trickster Masks

    Make or wear masks representing:

    • Fox

    • Raven

    • Deer

    • Wolf

    • Hare

    • Crow

    • Serpent

    • Cat

    Symbolism:
    The mask allows you to step outside of your usual patterns and release stuck identity behaviors.

    Prompt to Say While Masking:

    “Tonight, let me see through new eyes.
    Let what no longer fits fall away.”

    Use:

    • Paper plates + markers/paint

    • Felt + hot glue

    • Paper bags (old school theater style)


    2. Salt Dough Ornaments

    Recipe:

    • 2 cups flour

    • 1 cup salt

    • ¾ cup warm water

    Shape into:

    • Feathers

    • Runes

    • Spirals

    • Animal footprints

    • Trickster symbols (knots, flames, little foxes)

    After baking: paint red + gold or natural ochre tones.

    Meaning: These are talismans of transformation.
    Hang them on the Yule tree, or tie to Yule log remnants later.

    Words While Crafting:

    “What was bound is loosened.
    What is hidden is revealed.
    What holds me back is unmade.”


    3. “Burn the Old” Ritual Notes

    Everyone writes down:

    • One habit

    • One fear

    • One resentment

    Fold and burn in a bowl or fire-safe dish.

    Say:

    “Chaos carries it away.
    I am free to choose again.”


    🍽 The Feast — Fun, Irreverent, Delicious

    This night should feel playful, messy, and not formal.

    Examples:

    • Charcuterie “graze table”

    • Build-your-own tacos, nachos, sliders, or sushi bowls

    • Chocolate fondue + fruit

    • Spicy dishes (Loki heat!)

    • Anything colorful or over-the-top

    Drink

    • Spiced cider

    • Meade-like mocktail (honey, ginger, sparkling water)

    • Cinnamon hot cocoa for the kids


    🎶 Activities & Storytelling

    • Tell funny family stories, even embarrassing ones kindly

    • Watch a chaotic holiday movie or a mythic themed one

    • Drum or clap rhythms

    • Dance like nobody is watching (because tonight — nobody is)


    🌬 The Wild Hunt Acknowledgment (Night Walk or Porch Moment)

    Step outside briefly.

    Ring a bell three times.

    Say:

    “We see you.
    We honor the storm and the shadow.
    But this home is protected.
    You may pass.”

    Close the door firmly.


    ✨ The Closing of the Feast

    Remove the masks.

    Take a slow breath together.

    Say:

    “What was released will not return.
    Only joy and truth remain.”

    Blow out candles except one — let that one burn down naturally.


    Optional Add-On (powerful)

    • Save one salt dough ornament made this night.

    • On New Year’s Eve (Hogmanay), you will break it to seal the release cycle.

December 24th, Protecting the Home from The Wild Hunt - Santa's Night (Christmas Eve)

The Wild Hunt is described as a ghostly parade of spirits riding wildly through the night, marking a time of mystical energy. Nowadays, the Wild Hunt is known as a terrifying ordeal, where fae attack or capture anyone in their path. On the other hand, some believe it is a fae celebration, which can still be pretty scary since they're more rambunctious and violent than those on this side of the veil.

Santa was known as a fae, whose clothes matched the red-capped mushrooms that grow through the winter snow beneath the evergreen trees. Shaman or šamán means "one who knows." Bells call the spirits and fairies (that's why Santa has them on his sleigh). Milk and cookies were offerings left for the fae, for Santa, in exchange for presents.

The Deer Mother takes to the skies, carrying the light of the sun in her antlers, bringing rebirth to the land.

Also, the Yule book flood takes place, where people gift books to each other and read through the night.

Activities: 

  • Lighting candles, decorating with ribbons and garlands, and hanging mistletoe in doorways for protection in the coming year.
    • Evergreens: Evergreens were revered because they lasted even in the heart of winter. They were hung over doors and windows, as their greenery in a time of bleak cold was believed to ward off negative energies and illness.
    • Wreaths: The Yule Wreath had dried orange for strength, oak for wisdom, holly for hope, evergreen for rebirth, clove for prosperity, cinnamon for protection, laurel for success, and mistletoe for fertility.
    • Mistletoe: The druids held nothing more sacred than the mistletoe and the tree that bears it, the oak. They call the mistletoe "uil-ìoc," which means the all-healing. A kiss under the mistletoe represents the promise of love, life, and renewal.
  • A Christmas Eve care package (with books, pajamas, etc); Secret Santa or White Elephant with books.

December 25th, Christmas Day, letting light and hope in

  • Exchange gifts intentionally (even if small).

  • Speak one blessing for each person while they hold their gift.

  • Offer food to wildlife — apples, carrots, birdseed.

  • Make pinecone bird feeders for outdoor animals.

  • Wassail (hot cider with oranges + cloves + cinnamon)

26th, Honor to the Hearth

  • A day for feasts, particularly lamb stew and leaf bread, as kin gather together to share warmth and nourishment before the winter's grip tightens.
  • Togetherness, warmth, cooking, rest.

    Activities

    • Deep Clean but Softly: open one window for 5 minutes to release stagnant energy.

    • Burn juniper, cedar, or rosemary to cleanse the home.

    • Prepare a simple dinner together.

    • Family movie night under blankets.

    Energy Work

    • Quick feng shui reset:

      • Clear the entryway

      • Sweep toward the door

      • Add one plant or evergreen bough near the front door for protection

27th, Protecting Outside the Home

  • Making offerings to wildlife and spirits of the woods, preparing for the coming winter. This day is also marked by the creation of protective wards for the coming winter, ensuring a shield against unseen forces.

28th, Ritual of Completion (close out everything for the year, clear any debts)

  • It is a time to conclude tasks left undone, a moment of closure and preparation for the impending new cycle. Plum (figgy) pudding is a culinary symbol of completion.

29th, Day of Contemplation (looking into the new year)

  • Approaching the year’s end, the penultimate day invites a gaze into the future and an appreciation of nature’s wonders. Create open spaces for relaxation, meditate on the year to come, and engage with preferred divination tools, seeking insights for the unfolding future.

30th, Good Luck in the coming Year 

  • Wassail is made, and wassailing occurs.
    • Wassailing: The house-visiting wassail is the practice of people going door-to-door, singing, and offering a drink from the wassail bowl in exchange for gifts; this practice still exists, but has largely been displaced by carol singing. The orchard-visiting wassail refers to the ancient custom of visiting orchards in cider-producing regions, reciting incantations, and singing to the trees to scare away evil spirits and promote a good harvest for the coming year.

31st, Hogmanay (spiritually and physically cleansing the house)

  • Homes are blessed for protection (saining), and the home is cleaned from top to bottom. 
  • Drinking, dancing, and feasting ensue, and a massive torchlit parade occurs. Nowadays, Hogmanay (New Year's) rings in at midnight with fireworks and "Auld Lang Syne." The first person to visit on New Year's is called the "first-footer," and he should be a tall, dark-haired man bringing coal or shortbread.
Activities: decorate your home with candles to bring light into your home, go foraging, decorate with dried fruits and evergreens, bake a spiced yule log cake, have a cup of wassail, put a lantern on your porch or a candle in your front window, hang peanut butter and seed-coated pinecones for the birds, make gingerbread

December 26–27 — Stillness Days

Theme: Quiet, restoration, crafting, blankets, no pressure.

Activities

  • Nap.

  • Read.

  • Make simple crafts (paper snowflakes, pine bundles).

  • Journal on:

    • What you want to release

    • What you want to grow

These are resting days — let them be slow.


🏙 December 28 – January 3 — In Chicago

This is family time, but still sacred.

Daily Mini Practices

  • Bring one travel-sized candle → light for home blessing each night.

  • Walk in the cold → feel winter air on the lungs.

  • One card daily divination pull each morning.

Suggested Larger Rituals

  • 12/30 → Buy supplies for Vision Board

  • 12/31 (New Year’s Eve / Hogmanay)

    • Sweep the entryway of your sister’s home (with permission)

    • Open the door for first-footing luck

    • Write three goals and burn them outside to send to the returning sun

  • 1/1Vision Board Day

    • Coffee, cozy clothes, blankets, scissors, magazines, markers

    • Create boards themed:

      • Strength

      • Abundance

      • Protection

      • Family Joy

    • Seal by lighting a candle and saying:

      So it is written. So it becomes.


🕯 Symbols to Keep Throughout

MeaningItemWhere
Hearth & FamilyCandlesKitchen + Living room
ProtectionCedar / Juniper smokeDoorways & Corners
AbundanceBowl of oranges or nutsDining table
ProsperityGreen ribbon tied to front door handleEntryway
Returning SunGold or yellow candle lit at dawnWindow